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what do you do wen someone is real mean but all your friends adore her? Shes never been nice to me at all since the beginning of 6th grade and all my friens luv her. well, we were really good friends for 2 weeks in 6th grade but she started hanging out with all these different people and started hating me. i even know that shes been talking about me behind my back, cause my friend sara tells me everything she says when they're togeather. I just got all these new clothes from Abercrombie that i ordered on the internet and that one girl even said that they were ugly and i wasted my money, not to my face, but she told that to sara. i really dont know what to do and i think that you could help me. i dont want to talk to the person about it cause she will not like me even more. i dont want to be friends with her, but i just dont like the fact that she talks about me behind my back and criticizes what i wear.
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if you dont want to be friends with her, you shouldnt worry about confronting her. see, you dont need her to like you. if she doesnt like you for who you are, not what you wear, thats her problem. tell her nicely what you've heard that shes been saying about you (just dont tell her who told you). if she starts giving you crap and talks about you more, just ignore her. shes so bored with her own life, she's sunken to criticizing others... and thats low. let your friends go on being friends with her. that doesnt mean you have to be friends with her too, in fact, try to make new friends to add on to your already friends. you dont have to be mean to the girl either. bible verses LUKE 6:27-36 talk abput the laws of love. if you get a chance, read them. the bible is always a good place to turn, if someone is mean to you. it teaches you how to react. good luck, come back if you need more :D
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