ok so this grl and i were close friends but something happened and we split up, she still says we are friends but she treats me like shit, not much differently from before but i jus now notice it. What should i do?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? -Katie- answered Tuesday February 8 2005, 5:27 pm: I'm going through the EXACT same thing right now also. So far, this is what I've learned:
1. If she treats you like crap, then you don't deserve her as a friend - no matter what because you're better than that.
2. Try and talk to her and if she still treats you badly then just avoid her until she gets her act together because you probably don't need more stress in your life ( I know I don't hehe )
- It hurts a lot I know but you just have to try and not think about it and if you do - no that its not your fault that you guys arent becoming friends anymore. You tried talking to her and stuff you know?
-- But if the fight started on your terms. or even if it didn't. Apologize if you want to be her friend and if she means something to you. See how it goes...
Sometimes friends change over time and you just have to move on.
Also, because I don't know what EXACTLY happened, all I can do is tell you how I took the "something" that happened.
I hope I helped!
Good luck and let me know how it goes!
-Katie- [ -Katie-'s advice column | Ask -Katie- A Question ]
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