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i reallly really need help
okay.. well.. i havent really been close to guys lately because im tired of getting hurt.. so.. for about two years.. ive done that... well.. there is this guy.. and hes really sweet and cute.. and stuff... so.. the other day... we were in hollister ( he works there ) and he bought my sister some 80 dollar pants... and he started talking about how pretty she was... well.. he told me today that he likes my sister.. and i dont know what to do.. i really like him... please help me.. i will rate 5s!
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I would tell your sister how you feel. Is your sis older or younger? It's easier to explain it to an older sibling than to a younger sibling. (I don't have older siblings, but I have friends that do the job quite well, thanks dudes.) If your sister has any brain in that head, she'll honor you by respecting your feelings for this young man. If you feel comfortable doing so, tell the boy that you like him. He'll respect you more, and understand (if he has a brain) that it's not really cool to flirt with a different girl when theres a chick standing there that likes you. (that was a confusing sentance, sorry) I understand the whole "I don't like getting hurt by guys, so I stay away" thing. But, sweetie, it doesn't always work. I tried that, and I couldn't stand it. You know how it is said that staying away from the one you love makes you love them more? It's that way with people of the opposite sex. (guys with girls, girls with guys) It's just the way God planned it. He did not intend for guys to be such players and break girls hearts, but he also didn't intend for girls to 1)totally stay away from guys ... or ... 2) be as much of a player as the guys are!
Two of my three closest friends are guys. Granted, they're not ... "normal" guys, but still guys. (what I mean by not "normal" is I go to church with one of them, go to a Bible study with the other. That makes us close alone, but we're also all homeschooled, another close bond.) You've just got to find the right guys to hang out with.
If your sister doesn't listen to you, don't get mad at her, just perservere. In two ways. Continue telling her that it hurts you to see her flirting with this guy, and also by not letting it get you down. Keep your chin up, girl! God will provide! *Be kind when talking to your sister! She'll be less likely to listen to you if you're all up in her face!*
-FunnyCide
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Does your sister know that you like him? If she does, I don't think she'll go with him. Sisters are worth much more then some guy. If she really cares and loves you, she won't go for this guy. I think you really need to find another crush. One that will like you for you and not anyone else. Don't worry, that special person will come, I promise. You just have to wait. And don't try to find him, let him find you!
♥ Krissy
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