Question Posted Saturday February 5 2005, 11:48 pm
I am a 14 year old girl and I have this guy friend that I've been really tight with since like 2nd grade. We were the only two to go from our elementary school to our middle school so we kind of had only each other for the first part of 6th grade. But over the years we've both really changed...him I'm afraid for the wrost. He's gone totally goth...I mean hardcore. Black EVERYTHING and "satan worshiping". Now I'm afraid he's doing drugs and seriously worshiping satan, not just joking. I mean we're still pretty tight, but he just doesn't seem to be able to tell me anything. I talk to him...and tell him just about everything, but he only jokes with me. and doesn't tell me the truth when I ask him directly. I just don't know how to approach him though. I tried today, but he wouldn't be home cuz he was going to his stoner friends house. And that worries me even more. I know, I'm rambling, but I'm really depress/worried about his future. He is really like the smartest person I know, but he's doing the stupidest things I've ever heard of. Hopefully you have some insight. and you might even know who this is....I just need help.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? AllyKnows answered Sunday February 6 2005, 11:35 am: if this is who i think it is, well i'll answer the question as best as i can but you should talk to me directly about him. you see, i have absolutely no idea what there is to do. if he's on to satan worshiping now *i dint know that* then i'm really scared for him cuz it seems hes too far gone. do his parents or your parents know about everything he's doing? are they doing anything about it? the best i think you can do is just be his friend and steer him right when you see he's going the wrong way. he's just lost his way, with you being as good a friend as you are, its likely he'll turn back at some point. talk to me sometime about..outside the column. bye
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