ive liked this guy for what seems to be a very long time. he's a little older and we used to have a history, now weve kinda grown apart, but lately i havent been able to get him out of my head. he's like a throbbing pain. my brain is like ba doom ba doom ba doom. i'd like it to stop.
what do you mean by "havent been able to get him out of my head"? if u mean like, u want to start something up again, do you really want to? the only real way that you can stop thinking about him is if you realize that he and you have nothing romantic anymore, except for friendship. stuff like that's really complicated, as you know, especially if the guy is older. i think that you should either talk to him or find another guy to talk to. because you either have to get back together with him, start to dislike him, or find another guy who's also worth your valuable time. good luck! [ over_at_stephs's advice column | Ask over_at_stephs A Question ]
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