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I need advice!
I am 19 years old(female) I have been dating a 26 year old and has a child. I am in love with him and his son who is 17 months old. My problem is, his sons mother. I have been with my boyfriend since his son was 6 motnhs old(I am not the reason he and his sons mother are not together). My boyfriends exgirlfriend is so mean and rude to me, she tries to make me look like a bad person and I am not.My boyfriend and I have a wonderful relationship. My question is..What am I supposed to do when she calls and is very rude to me and tries to argue with me? I usually don't do anything because she is my boyfriends son's mother, but it is getting hard to just let it go because it is getting worse. What should I do?
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hmm...I am going to make some assumptions here and please write back if I'm wrong, okay? I'm guessing that the exgirlfriend calls you because she needs to communicate with your boyfriend regarding the child and you two are living together. If that is the case, I want to ask you, Are there marriage plans in the future? If not, really how commited is he to the relationship? You say you and he have a wonderful relationship, but has he stepped up and interviened on your behalf? I understand there's a child involved which always complicates things, but not knowing the whole situation, I will say this: It will continue to get worse until something is done about it and I believe if your boyfriend truly cares about you and loves you like you say you love him, he needs to defend you. He needs to protect your emotional well-being.
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