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i'm with a guy ( who has a girlfriend) and he wants to sleep
hey! firstly, i loved your column!
secondly = my problem!
okey, so this is the deal..i met this wonderful guy this summer, but he has a Girlfriend. Anyway, we spent 6 weeks together and we made out, held hand and all that (IT WAS WONDERFUL!) please dont tell me what i did was wrong, i know it was but i dont care because i love him, i really do. And he's told me that he loves me too. We made a deal yesterday (he's been with his GF for about 2 years, and he says he loves her too) he said, he doesnt want to cheat on her anymore because he loves her but if the feeling is right-something could happen between us this summer. And i was like: what do you mean? and he asnwered: well, im going to have my place all to my self this summer soo..who knows what could happen between us!? ;) anyway, i live in japan and he lives in america so we only see eachother during the summer. Hmm,i don't really know what my question is..im just so cofused..i love him so much, and i miss him..i really dont give a damn about his GF (i know i sound like an evil person, but i really really really love him, i cant help it.)Is there anything i can do to get over him? should i even try to get over him? should i sleep with him? (he's 18 and im 14) what's gonna happen between us? ( sorry, i know you cant answer that question) he's just so amazing i dont know what to do. Alot of guys like me here in japan, but i dont like anyone of them im just soo stuck on joshua.
Help! please?- mariana
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thanx:D
now to your question... i know you really like him, but think about this: if he has a g/f, and he's still talking to you and holding hands and everything, if you two were to go together, then who's to say he won't do it to you?
And the fact that you two can't see each other everyday only adds to the reasons i wouldn't recommend you two going any farther.
Now, you could spend time with him at his house, but the decision to go all the way with him is totally yours. If you don't wanna get hurt, I suggest that you don't.
I have the same problem with getting over boys, but the best piece of advice I can offer is to cry. When i couldn't see my b/f for a year, i cried until i got all my feelings out. I cried every night until I got it all out. Now, I can't remember the last time I cried. But just let your feelings out. Don't hold them in.
Well... I really hope i helped you out any:)Come back if you need anything else:P
*Diamyn*
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