Question Posted Wednesday February 2 2005, 12:00 am
ok, i like this guy, and he's my friend, but we're not all that close. he's only in one of my classes, but i talk to him all the time on aim. he was just a friend, but now im starting to like him. i know he only thinks of me as a friend, and he has a girlfriend, or he likes someone, and he has all these other friends that are girls too. what can i do to get him to like me? i talk to him all the time on aim, but hardly ever in school.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? lollypopgurl769 answered Wednesday February 2 2005, 9:08 pm: Hmm. Well maybe you should first get to know him a little bit better, I mean if the only time you guys really talk is after school on AIM, then thats not very good, lol. I know how it feels, falling for your friend. Its good in one way, but bad in other ... do you know for sure he has a girlfriend? If he does, trust me, you don't want to get inbetween that. Wait till they are over, cause I mean put yourself in the girls' shoes. But if he doesn't have a girlfriend and he only likes someone. Find out who. Just simply ask him, be like just out of curiousity I was wondering if you like anyone? Trust me, it'll be easier said then done. He has friends that are girls, yeah, that can be pretty nerve-wrecking for you but remember they're only friends, or you can ask him for yourself. Say someone else wanted to know if you're to shy to tell him you wanna know. You can't FORCE someone to like you, but you can help them fall for you. Just smile a lot, talk a lot, be interested in the same things he is, (or at least act liekk you arety!) haha, make jokes, guysh love funnjiy girls! Just talk to him more and be flirty, ask him to hang out sometime. And why don't you guys talk in school? I'm sure its possible ... just stop him one day at achoola amnd ask him whats up, how is his day ... talk about the homework, tests ... it'll be easy ... trust me. Go with the flow. Don't eevert plan things!k Ok, well I hope I helped and good luck with everything! No worries! Tell me how it goes! [ lollypopgurl769's advice column | Ask lollypopgurl769 A Question ]
sp4rklingr4in answered Wednesday February 2 2005, 2:28 am: Don't start liking guys if your main link of communication is AIM. If you really want to make him like you, talk to him more at school in person. Then he'll get to know the REAL you, not just the words you type on your keyboard. [ sp4rklingr4in's advice column | Ask sp4rklingr4in A Question ]
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