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hey. i just moved here over the summer and i became really good friends w..Sally..well sally's friend went to Mexico for a while. So Sally and i got to be really good friends! well her friends just came back.. whoot whoot.. well i thought that everything would be okay..itz not tho. like Sally is ignoring me. and not talking to me at all. but she only comes to me for things. or if she is bored, or if no one is around. or to ask :are you mad at me: but she is the one totally ignoring me! i have made some new friends. and she isn't okay w. that either! so what should i do. just sit there w. no friends! grr. hellppppp
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Sounds like the case of a user. Ok, let's list the pros and the cons:
Pros:
You two were good friends over the summer.
She still talks to you occasionally.
Cons:
Now you two are hardly friends.
She only comes to you when she wants something from you.
She's paranoid about you being mad at her, but doesn't really seem to care that much.
You made new friends that she doesn't approve of, and yet doesn't make the effort to see you.
Hmm.. looks like the cons outweigh the pros. That means unless you MUST be her friend, then you should let it go. Here are some things to say in certain situations:
If she says to you, "I hate how you are making new friends," then you should respond, "Well, some of my old friends left me and I decided to move on." If she says something along the lines of, "I really miss hanging out with you. It upsets me that you're making all of these new friends and leaving me behind. I feel uncomfortable coming up to you in the halls because I feel like I would be ignored," then you should REALLY consider being her friend again and hanging out with her.
Hope I helped.. fill me in on what happens!
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