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Is he using me for pleasure or does he really like me?
I went to the movies with a guy I like last night and we had a really great time. I gave him a handjob and he fingered me. He wanted me to do more and he was asking me for head and I got upset and asked him if that's the only reason he came and he seemed really upset and kept telling me he would never do that to me and he felt bad that I would think that of him. While we were there though, he would put his arm around me and hold my hand and he'd open EVERY door and he was a complete gentlemen. Also, later on he appologized for acting stupid and for asking me to do more. Then he asked me to go out next weekend. The other think is, before yesterday, he didn't even try to keep in touch with me for about a month (we go to different schools) so I had to start talking to him again.(he also appologized for that too) I don't want to be used and I don't want to be hurt again. I want a real relationship. Do you guys think that he's using me and leading me on or should I continue seeing him until I know for what he wants from me?
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well..just because he wanted u to give hima blow job doesnt mean that he doesnt care for you but i would be careful with him.
good luk xx
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Yes, this guy is using you. If you go out with him again, it will be the same thing.
J
There are too many nice guys you could date to waste your time on someone that seems to me mainly interested in sex.
S
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go for someone that you don't do things with on the first date, even if it's just a handjob, he prolly thinks you're easy
*~*shan*~*
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jsut becasue he wants sex doesnt mean thats all he wants. give him the benifit of the doubt
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