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over protected?
Alright so, me and my boyfriend 1 year..we've been going out 4. Like i like him so much and its fun being around him he can never make me bored and are relationship is awsome. Just one thing, he gets jealous a lot. Like if i tlak to another guy or call another guy or something or like just mess around like hit another guy. But c heres the thing ill think its no big deal wen i do it but when he does it i get just as mad. should i lay off him and relize that i need to stop talking to other guys or talk to my boyfriend about being to over protected..what do you think?
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my boyfriend gets like that too sometimes... does he talk to other girls a lot? make sure hes not being hypocritical.. he might just be a little insecure about your relationship. try to reassure him often that these other guys mean nothing to you and that it is harmless for you to talk to them. you could also try to introduce him to some of the guys that you talk to and hopefully that might make it less akward. just have a discussion and try to find out why it bothers him so much... then go from there.. good luck!! :)
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You both need to talk this out. And, like the other adviser, you're being a real hypocrite (there's the correct spelling, Michelle). If you think your boyfriend is being OVER PROTECTIVE, then what gives you the right to be just as angry as he gets? Just because you don't react exactly the same way as he doesn't mean you aren't as overly protective. If you're going to commit to a relationship to each other, then you need to commit wholely to each other. If you're to "mess around" or flirt with other and not be exclusive, then you need to discuss that, too. Either way, you need to talk about it immediately.
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Personally, i think you should talk to him. At the same time, you are being a hipicrite (sp). (NO OFFENCE!!! DONT GET MAD!) But, make sure to talk to him!
♥ Michelle
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