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Oh Crap! Why did It happen!
Im 18, just realized im totally inlove with my bestfriend, we've been friends forever and Im afraid that he will notice my new feelings for him. Besides he's seeing someone else already, though he has told me he's not really sure aboout her being the one. I dont know what to do :(
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Dear In Love,
Love is such a tricky emotion isnt it? Especially when it envolves your friends. Because this situation is so unstable Id first be wise to warn you to walk softly.
Lets consider your options:
If you tell this boy your new found feelings for him you might risk being rejected by your best. You may change your relationship (negatively) forever. You may loose a potential boyfriend and best friend all in one simple wave.
Or you could tell him and live a fantastic life together! Since you know him so well you and your best are likely to make the perfect pair! You'll already be able to understand each other and there for your relationship will ride smoother than most.
And your last option? You could say nothing. The upside to this is you risk nothing. But a quiet mouth leaves a heart burning with questions.
Ask yourself: Am I okay with never knowing how he feels about me? Do I trust our friendship is strong enough to be able to with stand this change my feelings will bring to our relationship?
Understand that you announcing your feelings for this boy will change your friendship forever. But this Advisor feels it is better to know than to be left wondering all of your life.
Make sure you have true feelings for this boy. If you decide to tell him be ready to confront the challenges that will face you. Be brave and be honest. Tell what's in your heart, it will never steer you wrong.
Best of Luck,
She Screams.
P.S. If you find my advice helpful, please rate me and be sure to tell your friends.
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