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tired of being blown off
well i have this friends see, and she keeps blowing me off to be with another friend that she sees @ least like 8 times more than she sees me. like today we were supposed to go skiing but she told me that she couldnt go n decided to go to another friends house-what am i to do? im afraid if i tell her then it'll be like she won, but if i dont tellher then i'll end up telling other people about it which will get us all ended up into a fight.
signed, blown off for eternity
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Dear Blown Off for Eternity,
What is it with friends these days? No one seems to have time for more than one friend at a time anymore. It's mind boggling really. I dont see why three friends cannot hang out together.
I honestly dont know why your bud has decided to blow you off but I can only assume something really important must have come up for her to treat you the way she is. Does she act this way often?
The only real way for you to understand what is going through your buds brain is to ask her. Tell her youre feeling a little left out and you want to get your friendship back on track. The only possibility that's likely to happen is that she'll tell you whats up.
If for some odd reason your friend doesnt seem to care about your feelings and continues to repeatedly blow you off then be sure you let your friendship die. Hang out with your other friends and choose to leave her behind. Im sorry to say but sometimes people only learn how others feel by going through the same situation.
Keep your head up and dont let this girl get the best of you. Have fun with or without her.
Best of Luck,
She Screams.
P.S. If find my advice helpful, please rate me and be sure and tell your friends.
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