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getting rid of unwanted attention


Question Posted Friday January 28 2005, 11:21 pm

I'm a 15yr. old guy. I've been told by more than "quite a few" girls that my hands are really pretty/feminine/softer than theirs/nails are better than theirs, etc., and that they wished they had hands like mine. Many of these girls have also expressed jealousy about my hair. It's sorta disturbing how much this goes on. True, some of the attention is okay, but I already have a gf and I'm afraid someone's gonna get too attracted to me. How do I get rid of some of the attention?

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PerfectPixie answered Monday January 31 2005, 9:25 am:
I think you should shave your head and cut your nails...JK :) I highly doubt that girls are going to become attracted to you because of your hair and nails only. I bet if they become attracted to you, it will be because of your personality. I'm not sure how you could get rid of the attention except maybe wait it out. Maybe you can tell the girls you don't feel comfortable with all the attention and hopefully they'll back off. It could be that they just are jealous with no underlying motive. I know a lot of girls, including myself, are self-conscious about how they look and when we see a guy who does nothing and has the perfect look, we get jealous, but it doesn't mean anything except we're not happy with ourselves. I hope I helped!
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