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he fell out of love
my friend and her boyfriend (both 18yrs old have been going out for 1 yr and 7 mon. but the guy broke up with her 3 weeks ago and now he tells her he doesnt want a relationship because he says its to stressful. my friend is really depressed and really loves him. do u think he will get back with her? what can she do to show him she not about stress just about giving him love and care for him and be a loyal friend?
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hey.
well the best thing to d is give him what he wants, which i think is space. if you just crowd around him pleading for him to come back [not you, your friend, i mean] then he'll just prove his point more by saying its too stressful having her on his back all the time. all she can do is give him some space- do her own thing [DO NOT HOOK UP WITH OTHER GUYS AND THROW IT IN HIS FACE.. that's not doing your own thing] just hang out with friends, show him you can have a fun, clean time without him - and he'll remember why he went out with her in the first place. he'll see what he's missing in his lief without her and he'll come back to her wanting it again - all the happiness and fun to take away his stress that she obviously isn't causing him.. hopefully. so just stick to that plan - and ride out the wave.. you never know what could happen.. it's either definitely over, which she'll be able to recognize if that's the case [for example if he hooks up with a different girl more than once]or he'll come back.. if he just hooks up with a diff girl one time and that's it.. don't get mad about it- well just don't let him know you're mad about it. remember.. you're not together anymore- and if it's just a one time deal.. and he doesn't do it again then he's obviously realized he wants only you. good luck & i hope i helped. let me know how things go =]
<3 elle
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