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my boyfriend and i have been going out for about 5 months now but we have been involved i guess you could say for like 2 years....weve always been really close. now on valentines day we decided we were ready to lose our virginity to each other and i was just wondering if there was any advice you could give me...if you dont wanna answer this i understand i just liked your advice you gave
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Well i would love to answer your question! However i'm not 100% sure what kind of advice you would like so i will give it a shot and if it isn't answering you question right then just ask me again a little more specifically and i will give you a better answer!! : ) First of all make sure that both of you are totally positive that this is what you want, and that you are ready for sex because it truely is a big deal. I lost my virginity when i was 16 years old to a guy that wasn't the right one for me. I kinda felt pressured into it and now i totally regret it. Your virginity is something really special and you can only give it away once and then you can never take it back. So think about the long run and make sure this is what you really want! Something i suggest to make sure its romantic, make it be something that you can look back on and be like wow, the first time that i was really intimate was magical. Trust me, that is something that is important! Talk to your boyfriend about it and tell him that you want it to be special. Also, make sure that he wears protection! The last thing you want is a baby, and something else that you may not know is that there are lots of places that you can go and get birth control with out your parents and free of charge. Do some research into this because birthcontrol is also something thats important when you are planning on being sexually active. If your not sure how to find a palce like this you can e-mail me your city and state andi will try to look into it for you! (crazyblonde0514@yahoo.com) You might want to also try to wear something sexy for your boyfriend to spice up the mood a little ; ) Something simple like a lacy red bra and matching underwear is easy and attractive!! And another thing is it's probably not going to feel so great, so make sure to let your boyfriend know to go slow... reallllly slow lol. And if it is hurting don't be afraid to let your boyfriend know! So I'm not sure but i tried to cover everythign i could think of about losing your virginity!! Lol, i hope i could help... if i didn't answer what you were looking for then just let me know and i'll be more then happy to give you a better response!! Have fun and be safe!!
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