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Question Posted Saturday January 22 2005, 9:07 pm

this is really weird because i know u but anyways, im having some issues with this friend of mine. We're really good friends and all but i feel like i cant tell her anything because she wont approve of it. like, i dont feel like i can talk to her about guys because she'll get the wrong idea and think that im a slut, but im not. Or drugs, im totally not a stoner or anything but i do smoke once and awhile. Shes not like that at all though and would be mad at me for doing it and for not telling her. I dont really know if i should tell her and hope for the best or not. If i dont she might eventually find out from other people and be more mad. if it helps im 16.

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Blade answered Saturday January 29 2005, 4:48 pm:
you should definately tell her because lying about it and hiding it will just make things worse. sure she might be mad at first but if you two are truly close friends then shell accept it and hopefully move on. she wont just let it go, but she might let it slide. when you talk to her about boys and drugs and stuff make sure you make the point that your not some skank or druggy, lay down your oppinons and beleifs on the matter,be honest, and let her know what you stand for and who you are. then talk. i hope things go well.since you know me you can always come ask me personally anytime you want about anything, i wont judge you on anything youve done,do, or will do, only on who YOU are.

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