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anutha chance??????????
hi. i am in a relationship where we keep on breaking up and gettin back 2getha. its for dumb little reasons neither of us really know y.
i want 2 give us anutha chance i really do but i dont want to get hurt again. this is the 7th time we have split up in a month. is it worth it?
i am not happy here. i cry every time we break up - it hurts just as much as the 1st time.
thnx. bi.
g x
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Hey,
People must be so fed up of me saying this, but...don't stay where you aren't happy! Life is too short to spend it wishing you could be somewhere else.
I always think that 2nd time around relationships never work (let alone 7th time around ones!), but I'm not so sure about yours. You sound like you break up for little reasons most people would just talk over...do you break up every time you have an argument? If so, just talk things over instead of running away (that applies to both of you!). You also say that you cry every time you break up - that could mean that you love him as much as you always did.
But still...7 times? You really, really need to have a proper conversation with this guy - and your heart. Do you want to be in a relationship where this keeps happening? What if you stay together for years and kids get involved - do you want them going through their parents splitting up a couple of times a week?
What do you want? If it's not this, you know what you have to do.
Remember that there are other people out there...don't hold on to this guy for the simple fact that he's a guy.
Blessed Be,
Rach xxx
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