I went out with this one lad (tom) for a few weeks but he was really funny towards me infront of his mates. we both decided it would be better if we split but a few days ago i found out it was because his best mate fancied me(declan)! declan asked me out but then tom said he still had feelings for me. my one m8 says to go out with tom because i know him better but my other friend says to go out with declan because tom upset me. I want to get to know declan better before i go out with him but i still have feelings for tom. shall i go out with declan, get 2 know declan and then go out with him or give tom another chance. please giv me some advice its drivin me crazy!!!
JadedinNowhere answered Thursday January 20 2005, 4:56 pm: ok first, are like british? or australlian? (bad spelling) sorry.. just you said "mate, fancied, and shall" three words we don't usually use in the USA.. ha, sorry ok, here's advice.
Maybe you should give Declan a chance, I mean, Tom let you go of his and your own free will. I think that if your relationship meant anything you wouldn't have really broke it off in the first place. I think you should get to know Declan (by the way, that is a kick ass name..), you'll find out which one you maybe like better if you get to know both of them. I think if you really aren't that 'fancied' by Declan, than you should go back out with Tom. yesh yesh.. :) Update me if ya need any further advice!
jeanine answered Thursday January 20 2005, 4:30 pm: well... first of all, i compleatly LOVE your little accent lol. If I were you I would get to know Decaln really well, but STILL be friends with this Tom guy. If things don't work out with Decaln, then ask for Tom back. Hope I helped!! -*jeanine [ jeanine's advice column | Ask jeanine A Question ]
CoNfUsEd001 answered Thursday January 20 2005, 2:01 pm: Your friends opoinions are important but u have to listen to your heart. If you like the new guy then try it out for a lil while n if u end up liking him then good deal, but then you could also realize that you really miss tom. its totally up to you. Good luck [ CoNfUsEd001's advice column | Ask CoNfUsEd001 A Question ]
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