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Hey i want to say thanks for what you said about me knocking my girlfriend up. Im 16 shes 14 one. Well She wants to get an abortion befor anything shows. Do you know how we do this? what she will have to go throw i want to make it as painless as possible for her! She not good with pain! Any type of pain! How do they get the baby out? Will she get a scar? Have to stay over night? That type of stuff... BTW my guradians are my Aunt and her 3 room mates..Thanks for everything -J
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I don't know about laws in your specific area, so I'll give you some general facts.
The first thing you need to do is contact Planned Parenthood. They can tell you what services they offer - for example, if they can provide confidential abortions or if your gf's mother must be told, if there will be a fee, etc.
Depending on how far along in pregnancy your girlfriend is, there are also different options for her termination. These include oral/inserted pills or surgery. A trained professional will be able to answer every question you have, but whichever option is best for your gf, there will be no external scars.
It's usually a day procedure - into the office and back out. She'll need someone to drive her home afterwards, and she'll also want to talk to her Planned Parenthood worker about receiving some sort of counselling. Abortion may truly be the best option for her, but it's still a tough time and it can help tremendously to have someone neutral to talk to.
It's obviously your choice whether or not your inform your aunt and her roommates, but you will probably need support, too. Let me know if you have any more questions, and the best of luck to both of you.
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