I've been talking to this guy for awhile now and I decided to be brave and put it all out on the line for him. I told him I was looking for something more than a friendship. He was cool about it but said "it's not you [here's my dilema] but we're just too far away from eachother for something like that to happen right now". Nice let down right? I thought so too.
But he's a big flirt.. well with me anyway.. and he's right we do live far away from eachother but isnt the "it's not you its me" line.. a LINE?!
So here's the question: Should I believe him when he says it's not me but distance or should I open my eyes to the nice let down he's giving me?
I have been through a long distance relationship. It is WAY tough. I can see from his point of view how it would be tough to go through a relationship when you can rarely see the other person. Yeah, it may suck...a lot...to hear those words from his mouth, but he is probably being honest. If he's a flirt then he probabl does like you, but having a friendship with you would mean so much more to him than having to spend so much time away from the one you're dating. I don't know if that helped you much...just try to keep your head up high and a smile on your face. Even though you may not be dating now, there's always another time down the road. Don't ever lose faith!
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