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i told my bf i had dun stuff (not much), and really havnt, b my bf and i hav been going out 4 just about 2 months, and he lives a few towns away, so we only c each other on weekends and stuff, but its still not that much. anyway, hes kind of that cute shy type, but hes still done more then me,(i havnt dun much) so all wev dun is make out, but he askd me later how far i would go wit him, and honestly i dunno. i really like him, and he said he even LOVED me which is kinda hard 2 believe concidering wev only been goin out 4 bout 2 months, but maybe i should do sumthin, just like foolin around, but we rarely c each other, and when we do it's usually at a mall or sumthing, so thers no oportunity, and o ya, thers kinda the prob that i said iv been fingered, but really havnt, and he said he has done it (which so far I believe). so basically, hel prob want 2 do it sumtime, but iv never really dun it, well, i gues wat im sayin is...dus it hurt? wat if im 2 nervous, but i really do like him a lot? i kno this is so stupid and i feel really immature, but i need some advice.
xoxo, jessi
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If your ready for this and you WANT to do it..then go for it. It depends how much it will hurt. Obviously if hes rough or uses a few fngers it will hurt. If it hurts..tell him to go easier. If hes gentler and uses not as many fingers..it wont hurt as much. Dont do anything your not ready for. If your too nervous then dont do it. Your bf probably really does like you..but he just might be saying "I love you" to get further with you. When you do it dont be nervous..and dont feel like you have to do this, because you dont
-meissa ]
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