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need to feel alive
im in my upper 30 so it is not like im a teen my boyfriend that i live with is not giving me what i need (passion) tried everything well that is except cheating on him to get what i need my problem is if i get caught he will leave me or throw me out i want to have all the passion but i dont wanna get thrown out for it what should i do i have not had it for 4 yrs
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tell him wat u want and he won'tgive it to u then leave
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If you're in your upper thirties, and feel no passion with your mate, leave him. Live with a friend. Rent an apartment. You want to be in a healthy, happy realtionship. Sex is a healthy thing, a bodily release. If you are staying with him only for shelter, you have no relationship.
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Call me. Theres no other way to do it if he won't give it to you.
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well if all you want is ((passion)) then leave him but if you truley love him you want just want to be with him for passion and sex. tell him how you feel.. and tell him what he does wrong or if you dont feel anything when you have sex like no love or anything leave him becuase then you are being with someone you dont actually love xOx jiLl
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well if u want it that bad just tell him!! dont cheat on him!! that is not the right thing!! but i hoped that helped u!! sincerly, *sami*
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In trying everything, does that include talking with him and asking him why he hasn't given? Maybe the passion has gone out of the relationship. How long have you lived together? Sounds like you've been together for a very long time to not have had much, if nothing, for 4 years. Could he possibly be cheating (just food for thought, and I certainly hope not!)?
You really need to talk this out, if at all possible. If he doesn't want to talk, then you have the option of leaving. Don't give him the opportunity to leave or throw you out -- YOU take that step; it might be just exactly what you need. And I know how hard it is, but in a relationship that is going nowhere, why stay and stagnate? Hope I helped some.
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