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please help im dying in my body
hi im kayla im 13 and im hoping you can help with this question and the future ones hopefully!! ok
i was wondering is 115 to much to weigh 4 a 13 yr old! im not fat but i have luv handles the things that stick out on the side of my hips and that makes me look fat! when i look i the mirror i see a gurl that looks overweight! i hate bein in thi body!! i want to be skinny!!! when i where tight shirts i always wear a jacket or hoody and zip it up till it comes to my chest! even if i do lose weight like to 100 my stomach still looks the same! o and thers No way im pregnant!i ask my friends if im fat and they say no! i somtimes think their just tryin to make me feel better! is there any advise you can give me?? + i am deppressed ALOT like everyday i cry!! and stuff is that it you think?i want to look skinny can you helpand i learned that starving myself doesnt work!! hope you can help!!! thanks kayla IM me if you want lildreamhunny14 bye!!!
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I know exactly how you feel. I always struggled with that fact and I felt the same way you do. I'm not fat I just have lovehandles. 115 is a perfect weight for a 13 year old...matter of fact you're supposed to be around 120. It all has to do with yourself esteem. One thing I always told myself is that when I'm wearing something that I feel fat in, I just say wear it like you own it. If you act confident then you'll look good and feel good. You have to start changing your thoughts, your depression does have something to do with it. Life isn't that bad, and anything that is bad something good will come out of it, i promise you. There will never be anything in life that you can't handle. There are times when everything is horrible but you have to look on the brightside. I promise you, you aren't fat by your weight, you just think you. Make sure you buy clothes flattering to your stomach even if it's not skin tight like most shirts. Look at yourself, what do you like about yourself? Are you really that fat? Look in a mirror and turn to the side, are you really that fat? Look at people who truly are fat that struggle with weights around 160, they have problems, but you, you're perfect in every way. Guys like girls with some meat on their bones, girls that grosly boney and skinny aren't attractive. I've talked to my guy friends and they like the fact I have curves and a body, if I was skinner I'd be sickly looking. Lastly, talk to someone, it always helps to vent your feelings. You can always IM me anytime you need anything. Write down your feelings in a journal or listen to music, anything to help you vent. Lastly, don't be afraid to cry, crying is always good. Good luck, you're beautiful and skinny! IM me or leave one in my inbox for anything else
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