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i need help
hi mandee this is kayla im 14!! i need help with this boy named nick!! i went out with him like 13 times!! he broke up with me 1 time out of 13!!! we met in 2003!!! we havent went out since like jan.last year 2004!!! he tells me he luvs me and stuff and i say it back!! im having a hard time cause i really have strong feelings 4 him!!since last week he started goin back out with his xx gf!! i want to beat her azz sooo bad!! i really love him still but i also bein moving on since last night!! im goin back out with my xxx nick!! but i still cant get him out of my mind!! im not sure if he still loves me cause he has a gf and i try to talk to him about how im feeling but he dosent sayany thing!! at this point ill do ANYTHING whatso ever to get him back!! i have more guestions but ill ask later!!! pleaze give me good advise!! i need help and i cant seem to find any!! thanx!! call 1-314-221-5695 if any answers or IM me lildreamhunny14 *kayla*
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Hey Kayla!! =D
Maybe he doesn't say anything because he's shy to tell you how he really feels, if he's moved on completely, or if he's trying to make you jealous with his ex girlfriend. But how will he know that you mean what you say if you hooked up with another guy? You're not available right now, so I would probably think he knows that your taken. Make it clear that you miss him and want him. I don't think going out with someone else would help. You need to be available.
Once that's taken care of you need to understand that he has to feel the same way you do to make this work. Get it? lol For example since you really love this guy and want him back, he has to really love you and want you back as well. Keep trying to tell him how you feel, maybe in sometime he will open up more. Give it some time, babe. And make sure you really know if he's moved on.Its hard to explain, but trust me, you'll know.
Now, I know that you wanted an answer telling you how to get him back. But in all honestly, you can't make a guy love you back again. It just has to happen, and the decision is up to him. No matter how cute you are, or how nice your relationship was, it's time to go on with your life. And if it was meant to be that you two should still be together, it might happen at a later time. For now, find news guys, you'll get to see that there is a lot of other people out there. It's not good to worry about him so much. He's living his life, and I think you need to live yours too. I know this isn't easy to get through. (Its harder for the girls.) But you'll get by just fine. I know it! And if you just hang out with your friends, get a job, and meet new guys, you'll have less time to worry about him.
I do understand that I'm making this sound easy, and it really isn't. But you know what? If you ever need someone to help you get through it, I will. I'm always here or online, so if you wanna talk more about it just let me know. I'm on vacation now, but you can catch me when I come back. Take care, Kayla! It'll be okay! =) Sorry if this wasn't what you had in mind as an answer!
Love,
Mandee
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