hey* im a 14 year old female and i've been in a relationship for about 8-9 months and i've been kinda worrying because im afraid my relationship may become abusive in the long run ... but i don't know because he doesnt look liek the type to hit his girlfriend .. but i love him so much and we both lost our virginity to eachother. He's never hit me before besides one time he grabbed me but not really hard but apologozed for it but he seems to always tell me wat to wear what to do .. not wat to say and all that kind of stuff wat should i do cuz i mean i dont want to loose him so what should i do ? thanx :(
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? lascivious answered Sunday January 16 2005, 11:32 am: Being controlling is the first step to an abusive relationship in most cases. I've been in one before and it's not all that fun. He may be telling you what to wear because he doesn't want other guys looking at you. Some guys do that because they're insecure and think you're gonna get taken or something. Talk to him about it and ask him why he tells you what to do a lot because he might have a logical explanation for his actions and if he doesn't, try to get out of the relationship before he ends up hurting you physically. [ lascivious's advice column | Ask lascivious A Question ]
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