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he doesnt want a gf
Okay..today i posted this question but i only got 1 really good answer (2 in total but the first advice person was a total joke) But i need more advice please! thnak you..this is a really long question..sorry bout the length! Okay, i really like this kid. lets call him "Chris". Well, at my school dances, i danced once with Chris before and i started to like him after that. So, at the past dance, yesterday on friday, i told my friend.."Allyson" that i wanted to try asking chris out. So, the next thing i know, allyson runs away and is talking to chris. I was pretty confident chris would say yes because i had always caught him looking at me in the halls and in our one class together. But then chris starts running away with his friends and allyson said to me that chris wasnt into girls! I was really upset and cried to my friends outside. it was horrible. It felt like id been hit in the stomach. so, now i dont know what to do. I really really like him. Would it be bad if i asked him out again? How do i know when hes ready for a gf? And what do i do to help myslef forget about him in the mean time? i dont like anyone else..13/f * Pleasssse dont delete this!
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Well, I think you should make the first move and see how it goes from there you never know. Your friend might be lying. Ya never know. Start talking with him and then when you feel it is time then make the first move... Hope that was a help!
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When he said he didn't like girls, i'm assuming (or kinda hoping, for your sake i guess) that he meant he isn't interested in the dating scene at this moment. If you really like him, maybe u should give it some time. Because if you seem too persistant, he may take it as you being desperate. And not many guys like that. But honestly, you should talk to him, and let him know how u feel. Explain to him how much you like him, and if it's time that he needs, you are willing to wait, or take it slow, or whatever works for him. (If thats the case).
Try to keep yourself busy with your other friends, go out shopping or whatever it is you do. Stay focused on other stuff so that you aren't stressing yourself about the situation.
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I've learned from past experiences that it's not goood to tell your friends about your crush cuz they might mees things up! As for going out with "Chris" I think you should give him some time to like forget about what happened. If you kep bothering him and asking him out he will probably get mad. So, wait a little and then by your self ( not thorugh friends ) ask him out and if he still says no then I guess it's not meant to be and eventually you will get over him! Hope I helped! xoxo - KrIsSy*
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