I have this friend,we'll call her "Nicole" and we've been like best friends since 5th grade and we were like inseperable,if she wasnt with me something was wrong, and this year we just started high school and at the beginning of the year I liked this guy, then somehow she ended up liking him AND even dating him. Well,ok, I have liked this guy, "Lee" from the BEGINNING OF 8TH GRADE YEAR before any of my friends even knew them. I think 1 of my friends was with me but that one was "Jess". So only "Jess" knew what "Lee" looked like. So like all summer before we started 9th, "Lee" was ALL I talked about, and then we started school and all my friends thought he was the hottest thing that walked on this Earth. So I like "Lee", pretty much EVERYONE knows it, even he does. Well I think "Nicole" likes him but she says she just acts like it to make me mad, I dont think shes acting, I honestly think she likes him. And it pisses me off cause they BOTH know I like "Lee" everyone does. What should I do about this cause it pisses me off that she likes him. And if they go out I dont know what the hell I'm going to do.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? metalkat86 answered Saturday January 8 2005, 4:24 pm: goodness, you are in a pickle!! if you like him so much, i suggest that you go stand up for yourself and ask him if he'd like to go out sometime. i've had similar problems before, and the only way i could make the other girls back off wat to go after what i wanted myself, to show them that they weren't going to scare me out of liking him. it may take a while, but you should work yourself up to asking him out, that's probably the only way you'll get them off your back. if this didn't help, email me: metalkat86@htomail.com. if it did, glad i could help. i hope i hear from you soon, cuz i'd like to help you solve this. later,
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