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friend in need of help
my friend likes this girl (whos also my friend)...who also likes him..he asked her out n she said yes then after a week he wanted to pos pone the relationship, since there was so much stuff goin on as well..and she seemed to started to inorge him but didnt notice that she was and theyre are still friends..and hes been depressed and shit, its just that he still feels like he screwed everything up again and that he missed my chance by wimping out of it..and he was going to ask her back out today and didnt...and now he states the he is worried about this fag chris trying to pull sum shit off ....since this chris guy seems to giving him smirks when ever she is around both of them at the same time..and he did it to my friend be4 this one with the other girl he liked..and he is afaird he is gonna punch a whole in his wall bc he punched one in anger..and i dont know what to do..he calling himself a loser..and i know that he would never go anyone near sucide or w/e since he is a high honor student, in honors classes, band and etc..i dont know why someone would not wanna go out with him in the 1st place..hes just soo awesome..and i told him that he wasnt a loser..and that he was awesome..but i dont know exactly how to help him..hes like my bff now hes just soo gr8 when i need him for advice and such...any advice for me or him...(or both)-thx
P.S. i met him in july on-line (yeah i know i know the whole speech) with a bunch of others in our school..and we became really close....hes almost a 2nd me..he seems to be open to me n im open to him as well..like he told me a serect only me and someone else know..and something that only i know..and the thing is i dk it seems strange not even a year do we know each other only 6mths and were really open to each other
-thx again
(btw were all 14 besides chris who i think is 15)
(o n anythin other then then if they like each other then he should ask her out again ps...he said he isnt sure if the time it right and he was gonna do it today but backed out he was gonna do it like next week or so he he told me broke out in hives last night he said bc of neverness)
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wow it sounds like you have a real problem on your hands here... Well first of all, you really need to get your friends spirits back up. Just keep encouraging him, telling him that he is not a loser and stuff like that. Let him know how much he means to you. Then try to get this freak Chris away. Make sure he knows that you wont take any bullshit from him, and that he needs to shove off.
Oh, and just because your friend is an honor student, doesnt mean that he wont consider suicide, so keep a close on him, it sounds kind of serious!!
Well.. I dont really know what else to tell you right now.. just hope for the best, i guess.
Hope this works out for you and good luck! ♥ stefnie
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