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Okay, well I'm in a tough situation, and I would like a guy’s point of view, so here it goes... I met this guy through a friend of mine, and we have gone through a lot even though we have only known each other since August of 2004. See at first he really liked me, all of my friends, and his friends that I was introduced to would always come up to me or IM me and say things like "Oh wow Brett(the guy I like) likes you so much, and he thinks you're it, and really likes you a lot!" Things like that and for a few weeks that was happening everyday, but then over fall break, he kissed another girl (Shelby) and he was confused and didn't know who he liked more... (And him and Shelby have history together from 2003.) Well, he ended up "choosing" me over her... And he started liking me a lot again, and then people telling me he liked me a lot started once again. Well, now it is basically happening ALL OVER AGAIN, he likes Shelby and me at the same time, and he told one of his friends that I am also friends with, that he just wants a relationship and he doesn't care with who, and his friend told me he got the impression Brett doesn’t like me at all, and if he does it’s very little. Well, when my best confronted him about not liking me anymore in a letter, because that's what I was told, he got really mad and replied back to the letter from my friend saying "I do like her that's why I have her picture in my wallet and look at it everyday, but my feelings come and go. I can control it okay?" So basically he was contradicting himself in saying that his feelings for me come and go, but he controls them? So to me it makes no sense at all... So I guess my question is... What do I do? I mean does he like me or not? And if he doesn't, what changed, and why is he lying? The reason Brett and I haven't gone out already is because his parents are REALLY strict and never let him do anything and he has been grounded since early November, and won’t be able to talk to me a lot until the 18th of this month, and we go to different schools, but next year we will be going to the same one, and he also said in the letter that next year we are going to go out, as long as I still like him... So I am just completely confused, and I don't understand this guy one bit. What should I do? And does he like me? Or is he just desperate and playing me? My deepest apologize for making this so long, but I really need help, I am tired of crying myself to sleep every night over him. (Sorry if this was very confusing or hard to follow.)
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wow you win the award for longest question ive ever seen. im guessing when he wrote i can control my feelings he meant can't ive done that before its a common mistake. that said i dont think you should be going through all this crap. having to choose between you and another girl and actualy having to think about it once is bad enough if hes doing it again then i think hes just angling for something. i say forget about him and let shelby deal with the crap. you can find yourself a guy that wont put you through all this.
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