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me and my ex-girlfriend
I really need some advice about me and my ex-girlfriend. i don't know what to do. i miss her, or at least i think i do. i don't know if i miss HER or just miss someone to be with. my friends seem to think it's the latter, but i don't think it is. is my brain broke??? is it normal to be so confused?? i just don't know. should i talk to her and tell her what i'm feeling, or should i just move on?
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I guess the best thing to think about is, why did you break up with her in the first place? How did you feel about her while you were with her? There must have been some kind of reason why you two broke up. If you don't think about this, then if you DO get back together, there's a massive chance that it could fall apart again. Things have to be all or nothing,(you can't half-ass a relationship or not both be on the same page) and it wouldn't be fair to either of you to get back into a relationship if it was based on just missing having someone to be with. If you're going to be with this person, it has to be because you really feel that strongly about her, and not just because you need her around to make you feel better about yourself.
You can take what your friends say as something to think about, but it really depends on what you (and her) think. You might just really need to be apart for a while to get a good look at everything. In fact, you might need time apart to get a good look at yourself without her. She might need the same thing, time to be on her own without you.
I bet if you talked to her, she'd listen.
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