ok theres this guy- and i *used* to like him a whoooole lot.. we went out for a while but he turned all shallow and went dumped me for this girl who was my bff a couple years ago (however i was already in a fight with her so this just pissed me off even more) then he dumped her for this other girl i dont kno and then he dumped her and now he likes this girl.. ( this all happened in like a month ) and so im friends with the guy and stuff but i kinda still like him even tho he can be a COMPLETE IDIOT and like whenever im around him he gets all * go away * but his friends are totally nice to me (they rock) what should i do about my feelings for this guy?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? LexybelNLisa answered Wednesday January 5 2005, 7:22 pm: wow he really does sound like a jerk.. major. well you already realize hes a BIG jerk, and once you start liking him again, and he even likes you, that its not really going to last along time. But you never know he could change. First of all, If no matter what you know you still like him and that the feeling isnt going to go away anytime soon, you have to go to the point where at least he's not telling you to go away or to leav him alone. Re-gain his freindship and trust. You could do this by hanging out with his freinds and him. If his freinds are nice to you, then they probably wouldn't back him up with his taughntingness. The more you hang out with him the more he'll realize how cool you are. (jus remembr not to forget your other frends 2 back you up if u fall) after your frends(if it happens) take it a little farther and tell him you like him/. good if he liks you if he dont then shrugg it off your feelings will eventually go away. However, if none of these steps work, then just try not to think about him, hang out with you other frends , and focus on you not a guy that shouldnt be worth your thoughts.
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