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Okay so theres this one guy at my school that i've been in love with since like first grade. But there are a couple problems. 1.He's like the most popular guy at school, and i'm .. not at all. 2. Every girlfriend he's had is really popular and pretty. 3. I've never really been able to talk to guys. So I guess what my question is, is how can I be more comfortable talking to guys and get this guy to notice me? Thank you so much. I'm sorry if it's confusing.
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No its not confusing at all, but this is kind of a harder question for me to answer, i've never really had a problem with talking to guys, see, when I talk to guys I just imagine them as girls, only .. hot. lol but one of my friends had a ton of friends that were girls and she was very outgoing, but she just never really talked to guys. So by the sounds of it, she had the same problem as you. I really think part of it is because you're to self consious, whenever you talk to a guy, you're always worrying that they're judging you and wondering if they think you're dumb or cool or whatever. So I think what you should do is just start talking to people, of both sexes in all you're classes in school, i'd start with the ones sitting close to you, just strike up a conversation, or if you can't do that, then just wait for them to say something and just join in. by the sounds of it, you sound really cool, so just get your voice out there a little bit! hope this helped! If not, just IM me and I can try to help you out a little more! But just remember don't worry what other people think of you. Just be you, and people can like you for that or not, its their problem if they don't!
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