hi.... ok i think i like this guy randy and i know that he likes me.. or at least thats what he tells me. here's the catch he's a junior and im only in 8th grade. is that too werid? also everyone doesn't think the best of him.. people judge him before knowing him. and as ive got to know him ive found i think i like him. but im not sure if he just was to get with me and then hook up and then dump me afterwards. im so confused with this. what should i do? please please help me... i really need it! thanks for reading .
~shelly
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? DrAnqel answered Tuesday January 4 2005, 5:39 pm: Shelly-
Ok well if it helps, I'm in the same situation. I'm a freshman, and I'm going out with a senior. So it's not weird. As far as what everyone thinks about this guy, don't let it phase you. You can't judge someone based on what you hear, but I don't think you've done that. Talk to him, tell him how you feel, chances are, he's just a mature older guy, that is interested in you. If you talk to him, and it seems like he just wants to use you, then you can certainly find someone a lot better. If you guys do end up going out, don't do ANYTHING with him for a while, like, not even make out. If he just breaks up with you thinking that you're prude, at least you have nothing to regret but saying yes to going out with him. I hope this helps, and good luck Shelly. Keep me posted. -Angel [ DrAnqel's advice column | Ask DrAnqel A Question ]
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