I wrote a question earlier within the week asking how i should tell my best friend Jared that i really wanted to officially be with him before he went off to college. Well, i tried telling him last night in a way by asking him if he's ever thought about "us" he said ya and then i found out he's talking to a girl i cheer with. He said he wasn't sure about things with her though so i dunno if its a big deal (she is SO moody) but anyways... im kinda stuck in the situation where im not sure wht to do nxt... i would wait on him forever i love him a lot and i've known him since i was three. But my question is, is there ANYTHING i could do to make him realize the other kind of love he has for me?! i really appreciated everyone who helped me before ya'll are so sweet!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? JyNxiE answered Monday January 3 2005, 8:51 pm: This one's tough...but I can relate. My best guy friend and I had this same dilema a while back. The best way you can show him your true feelings and see if he feels the same, is be direct. Ask him specificly if he sees the two of you as anything more than friends. The rest would depend on the answer. If he says he doesnt, then you can drop the subject...and if he says yes, then just go from there. And if he ends up dating this other girl, just be there for him...if he has feelings for you he'll realize them, eventually. Guys can't possibly be that blind, can they?
bAhAmAmA0250 answered Monday January 3 2005, 8:41 pm: Yeah this is a tuffy. At least is he kinda confused about that other girl. Just keep talking about him. Be there for him. Hang out with him. Thats all you can really do. Life isnt like shrek.. we cant get a potion for love.. sucky i know! But you just gotta talk to him about how you feel and tell him you would wait on him but the longer it takes the more it hurts you!! -trix plz rate [ bAhAmAmA0250's advice column | Ask bAhAmAmA0250 A Question ]
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