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My dad
My dad doesnt like my boyfriend because he is older and he has made some bad choices in his life, what should I do? Is my dad right to not like him even though I really love my boyfriend? I'm so lost. Please help.
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Hey.. That must be hard having your dad not like him. Sorry to hear that. Well, honestly, you're Dad is totally in the right frame of thinking.. I can sit here and name like a million things that parents are right in, etc.. You may totally love your boyfriend, that's not a question, but you really got to give a little to your dad.. What I mean is, I don't think you should cut it off with your bf, because that would be pointless and dumb, but definitely let your Dad continue nagging you about not liking him, etc.. Because EVERYTHING your Dad is saying is right. Believe it or not. Everything your Dad says has great meaning to it.. If he says, "WHY ARE YOU DATING HIM?! HE'S A LOW LIFE BUMB." or something like that, it's probably true, your bf could be a low-life bumb, lol, you know what I mean? But that definitely doesn't mean you shuoldn't love him. Your dad ONLY wants the best for you- THE BEST ONLY period... Im not going to say you should have a talk with your dad and tell him how you feel, etc, like most columnists would tell you, because that's an obvious one, obviously you have talked to your dad aobut it. If he is TELLING you to break up with him and that's that, that's a different story, but it sounds like your dad just doesn't like him.. What I would do, is invite your bf over for dinner maybe one night a week for about 3 weeks [as long as its okay with your parents ofcourse] and tell ur bf to bring over flowers one night, or chocolate another.. Just a little something to show respect to your parents. Also, DO NOT do anything with him [sex, etc] ... If your dad ever found out, or just say the guy broke your heart in the end and you did have sex with him, everything your dad said was right.. and you dont want him to have to say, "I told you so." I really hoped this helped.. Please come back to me if you need more help.. Love kristin
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