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ahh! do u think a friend is really a friend if she says something rude behind your back?! okay, cause i have some friends and well i keep hearing all sorts of differnt things from everyone(and they are usualy mean) i dont no what i am doing to make them say thee things. and i dont no if the people are really saying these things and someone is just making it all up! i cant stand it!
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no a friend isnt a friend if they talk behind your back, thats messed up! but dont start blaming things on them if you dont know if its true, because wouldnt you feel really bad if you went all off on them and you found out that they really didnt say anything? i mean if you're hearing it from tons of people its most likely true that they're saying things about you but it could also be a rumor...someone could've said that they said something and then it went from person to person then it came to you..just confront them nicely and ask them if what youve been hearing is true..and if they deny it...trust them, if you start hearing it again maybe you should question your friendship...and if its true just act like you dont care! thats what people hate the most when they're saying things about you, they're just trying to hurt you...but if you act like you dont care they'll get bored and just stop, hope it helped
xo-Marisa
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