Question Posted Thursday December 30 2004, 3:44 pm
there is this girl and we went out and i cant stop likeuing her...i dont kno. she has a new b/f and it pains me and i still like her....how do i get over her.....anonoumous
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? OcherryfaerieO answered Saturday January 1 2005, 3:25 pm: My friend is in the EXACT same situation right now. So you went out with her, and i'm gonna assume if you still like her that she broke up with you. Even if you still like her, she has obviously moved on. You need to accept the fact that she doesn't like you that way anymore. She has moved on with her life, and you need to do that too. You could start moving on by hanging out with other people, getting yourself a new Girlfriend or Crush (but dont hurt the girl by telling her you're still getting over this other chick), also don't fawn over her so much... she probably likes the attention, and when you give it to her it makes you like her more, so stop obsessing over her, and face the facts that she doesnt want to be with you. You'll just have to be content being friends... and maybe in a few years she'll relize ur the one for her... or u'll realize she isnt the one for you. Just get on with your life and join activities and occpuy your time.. so you dont think of her so much. If you find youreslf thinking of her... just say to yourself "NO James (or whatever your name is) I can't think about her this way" and move on to another thought. I hope I helped! Feel free to ask me more questions if you need to!
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