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me and my boyfriend...
me and my boyfriend have been going out for almost 8 months now and we havent had sex... it'll be 8 months on Jan.4th, and i was over his house yesterday when his parents werent home and he tryed to have sex with me, which he does all the time, and he got pretty far until i said no because his little brother was home and i didnt want him 2 walk in on us... but anyways getting to my point, should i have sex with him? plz help me im so confused, and i really dont no what i want to do either... oh just so you know im not a virgin either... and neither is he.. oh and were both 14 yrs old
Love always,
**Court~**
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Well,it sounds to me like you really just aren't ready to take this relationship to that next level yet.And there's absolutely nothing wrong with that,you're still VERY young!I know you hear that all the time,but it's the truth!The thing that worries me is that this guy,as you say,"keeps trying" to have sex with you.If he can't respect you enough to back off and not keep trying to rush into something that serious,then odds are he isn't worth having sex with anyway!Just a little advice from an older chick!BUT,I'm not here to judge you hun!I think you should let this boy know that it's time to slow down,and if he can't respect that and back off a little then nothing's EVER gonna happen!If he truly cares about you,he'll respect your wishes and pace things.Sadly,not every guy is worth it!!I hope I was able to help you out some!!Best of luck hunnie,and remember,you don't have to have sex with someone to keep them in your life,and if they say that you do,you don't want them in your life! :)
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