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boy troubles
I have a group of really good friends, and i think that they are all a lot prettier and thinner than me, (they are all skinny girls and im curvy). so when a guy likes me, i usually take what i can get. i have very unique taste and i usually go for the guys everyone else thinks are ugly. but after i hook up with them, a few weeks later, they flirt with my friends. i dont know what to do because it really hurts me. how do i know that they werent just using me to get to my friends
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If you find that your boyfriends flirt with your friends when you're all together, it could just be the way they act around pretty girls. That doesn't necessarily mean that he's using you or isn't interested in you. I'd still talk to him about it, though. Tell him it makes you feel uncomfortable. Be honest and up front about it.
If he's taking opportunities to spend time with your friends without you, then I'd be worried. Talk to your friends, about it. If he's getting too cozy with them, it's probably time to ditch the guy.
A smart guy would know better than to use a girl to get to her friends simply because a lot of women won't date a friend's ex.
As far as knowing a guy's intentions, that one's tough. Every guy is different. There's no clear cut way to determines a guy motives ahead of time. Believe me, I wish there was. :)
The best thing to do, if you ask me, is to remind yourself that if he's using you...it's not because you're unattractive or boring. It's because he's an asshole and you deserve so much better.
♥ Lorelei
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