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Hey people....I have liked this boy let's call him Dylan for a looooonnnnggggg time and I didn't know how to get over him because our relationship that we had wasn't going anywhere. I'll explain the relationship...well we went out a few times and it didn't work too well but when we weren't going out more stuff happened between us and that is what made me attached more. Well I finally got over him :) because another guy came in to the picture let's call him Cody...but i broke up with him because it didn't really work and Dylan helped me through it so now me and him are basically best friends which I like better then what we were before. Well he is having this party at his house on New Years and I'm spending the night and so is my best friend, Dylan and her have been talking lately so she is coming. Well I think that my friend likes him and I'm scared because i'd be upset if i saw that happen. It isn't because I still like him, because I don't but it's just I don't want my 'ex lover' lol to be with my best friend. He basically told me that he likes her but he couldn't go out with her because she had sex with this one boy and he thinks it's gross because of who it is. So yeah he told me to my face that he liked me still. At the party I'm not sure if I should mess around with him or not....I wouldn't mind but i don't know what to do.I can't talk to my best friend about it because she won't understand because I don't like him and the only way she would is if i told her I liked him still and I don't...I don't know what to do!!!
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Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship?
First talk to your girl friend and explain that while you no longer have feelings for him you would feel uncomfortable if the two of them got together because of the past that you share with him. Since she is your best friend I am sure that she respects your feelings and will avoid anything romantic with him. If she really is your best friend she will understand where you are coming from. Second, talk to this guy and explain that you value his friendship greatly. Let him know that you do not have feelings for him in anyway other than friendship. Avoid leading him on so that you can secure your friendship with him. Otherwise it will turn into a mess which might cost you his friendship. Best Wishes!
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