Question Posted Tuesday December 28 2004, 12:54 am
Im 14/f. Theres this guy I have been talking to online for about 6 months, I know him from school and first started talking to him when he liked my friend to set them up. Well we've been talking for a while, and he doesnt like my friend (never did) and he recently said he wanted to talk more at school and asked me why i never said hi to him in the halls. And yeah... I've fallen for him. Hes really smart, and although he is a lot shorter then me hes got a great personality. But theres one catch, he smokes weed. Not just once in a while. A LOT of weed. 1. Do you think hes interested in me (please be honest) and 2. Is it ok to go out with a potsmoker (does it taste bad kissing.. etc.?)
Thanks!
XoCuTiPyOx93 answered Tuesday December 28 2004, 10:50 am: He definitly is falling for you too. I DEFINITLY wouldnt go out with him thoguh because fo his problem. If you really care for him then I would tell a school counsler or someone that could get him help. I hope i helped! [ XoCuTiPyOx93's advice column | Ask XoCuTiPyOx93 A Question ]
vickiooos answered Tuesday December 28 2004, 2:56 am: umm.. well i was kind of in your position.. there was this guy that i started talkign to a few months back and we got really close and i even liked him a few times but he did alot of crazy stuff that i'd never do.. like yes weed and drinking and etc.. luckily me and him were close enough that i was able to like actually change him and stop him from doing most of this stuff.. but for you.. it depends on how strong of a person you are.. i coudln't ever go out with him because i kinda didn't trust myself with him. when i liked him i didn't really feel like i could be at a party or something with him and not get wasted or do something stupid that i knew i'd regret. he kinda made me forget my senses sometimes.. so if you want to go out with him you have to know that you are putting yourself at risk with getting caught up with these things.. but umm.. honestly ive never (i dont tihnk) made out or kiss a guy thta drinks alot or smokes or stuff so i wouldn't know. and i think he is interested in you. =] so goodluck and keep me in formed. [ vickiooos's advice column | Ask vickiooos A Question ]
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