|
ok heres the thing..I'm 15 years old..and I have an ex thats 20 and well I love him soo much..but it's just the fact that hes 5 years older than me and well..hes been asking me back out every day on the phone only because he knos that i do want to be with him but if my parents found out they would kill me..and well he told me that he wants to spend the rest of his life with me..I mean yea i want to be with him but not for the rest of my life..i love him so much i dont even no what to do about this its so hard..should i be with him or not..it kills me every night on the phone to say no him and then to hear him cryin sayin how much he loves me..i dont even no..he was goin to kill himself cause i wouldnt be with him..
[ ]
Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
this guy is way way too attached! Think about what matters more to you..following your parents wishes or going against it to be with him. If you feel strongly enough and want to be with him..go for it..but if you think about it and decide you really want to not be with him..dont back down. In fact, taking a break..maybe even a permenant break from his might be a good idea. This guy is 20 ..maybe its better for you to let go and let him find someone his own age. It all comes down to your choice..think about your past relationship with him and think about which means more to you and which way you want to go. Make a list, that might help. But if you decide to keep away with him..dont let him whine to you like that..its not fair to you at all. Whichever you decide..good luck.
If you were wondering my personal choice if i were in your shoes..i would keep away with him..but thats just me. I just dont go out with older guys like that.
Best of luck
-melissa
]
More Questions: |