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me again...thanks for your help but things between me and da gurl dint really work. i found out she doesnt even feel the slightest thing i do. i made up ma mind to get over her, but i still wanna be friends. wats the easiest way to get over her. ive tried before and it was hard. thanks
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Aw, sorry to hear that. Hm.. getting over someone can be pretty tough. Well.. there are many ways. There are really no particular "steps" in getting over someone, it just happens.. There's this quote, I kinda forgot how it goes, but it's like if you can't get someone out of your heart, then maybe they are really suppose to be there. But you said she doesn't have the same feelings as you do, so I guess this is a different situation than one that could match that quote. Anyways, everytime you think about her, tell yourself this, "she's an amazing person, but she's just not for me." EVERY SINGLE TIME you think about her, say that to yourself. Right now, your sub-consious mind is so set on liking this girl.. it's like, for example, chocolate, it's bad for you, but you have probably loved it ever since you were a little kid, so your sub-consious mind is set on liking it. That's how it is with this girl. Sounds to me you've liked her for a while now, and so your mind is automatically use to thoughts coming in your head about how much you like this girl, etc, BUT if you start telling your mind, " no i dont like her, shes a great girl, but shes just not for me," your mind will sooner or later get use to that notion, and will REALLY start to think that way... Whenever people ask me these type of questions, about getting over someone, I kind of have a lot to say because I've had to get over people in the past, and so I know how to do it and how it feels.. She really needs to know how you feel though. Try talking to her about it and tell her exactly how you feel because she might be really confused if you start to avoid her or ignore her calls, etc. I know I would be mad if I didn't know what was going on. Also, keep in mind, YOU WILL GET OVER HER. This, you have to remember. Even if it took you years and years and years, you will get over her.. You said you were like 18 or 19 right? You still have your whole life ahead of you.. You're going to find someone who will love you back!! It's her loss, don't worry everything's going to work out.. love, kristin
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