Hi Dr, I've been going out with this guy for not a long time, but its my second real boyfriend. I really like him yes I do, but at times I feel as if I loose attraction for him and it feels like I like someone else for some reasons that I feel I dont want to hurt him. What should I do?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? DrAnqel answered Tuesday December 21 2004, 12:25 am: talk to your boyfriend about how you feel, explain that you would never want to hurt him, but just let him know that it is possible that you could be more attracted to someone else, if he doesnt think its best for you two to be going out, then go find that other guy, but if you stay in that relationship without telling your boyfriend, it will hurt him more and more with time and you will regret it. But if it really isnt that big of a deal that you're somewhat attracted to this other guy, then just casually bring it up to him like it aint no thang, hmm.. it really is hard to have to deal with this, but once it passes, i think you will be more happy than your given situation. Hope i helped. Good luck sweetie. Keep me posted!
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