Okay, so there is this girl that I've known for quite a while, we've been friends for 2 years or so I think. I met her becuase she is my sister's best friend sister. My sister and her friend think that she likes me because she always talks about me and says stuff about me. So for a while, I just ignored the signs .. she was just a friend to me and nothing more. Also, she is my sister's best friend's sister and our two families. know eachother very well .. so it would be rather odd if there was a relationship going on there. Except, now, I am starting to like her .. a lot .. and I don't know exactly what to do. Bah, oh mighty Tara that knows everything .. HELP ME! Should I try to tell her how I feel or ask her on a date or something? I'm clueless, really.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? XoLiLmsYaNkeeOx answered Monday December 20 2004, 1:00 pm: ok well i will try to help you to the best of my ability, considering i have been in your shoes before, though i never actually started to like the person. see, we have these family friends who i have known my whole life, and i am good friends with this one guy, we even spent spring break with them once. they live in new york and we see them every winter and summer. to make a long story short, this guy has had an ongoing crush for me ever since he learned what the word crush was. i have always ignored it, no matter how many times my little sister or his little sister brought it up, because liking the kid you used to take baths with, is just not an option for me lol. still, he is one of my good friends, and having a relationship with him would just be totally weird, considering our mothers have been best friends since college and ive known him forever. so, i know how weird it would be for you to have a relationship with this girl. maybe you should just ask her if she feels anything more than friendly towards you. and if she does, and you feel the same way, great, make it happen. but beware of what will happen when you two break up. your families are so close, you would still see her A LOT and going back to friends after being more would be incredibly hard to do, not to mention totally awkward. think before you leap on this one.. think very hard. good luck [ XoLiLmsYaNkeeOx's advice column | Ask XoLiLmsYaNkeeOx A Question ]
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