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hey
umm im 14 and im small for my age. i havent gotten my period yet and i have no boobs. im really skinny too...but im definitley not anorexic...AT ALL!! so yeah i have two questions. #1...what should i do about this? like how should i make myself grow more. #2...is this why i havent had true bf yet? i mean im not ugly...just not developed.
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1. There is nothing you can do to make your boobs grow faster or your period come quicker. This is a pain, but it's true. If you are concerned about your period, a visit to the doctor can set your mind to rest - and there are other signs it's coming.
More body hair, breast growth, hips becoming more 'hippy', discharge in your underwear, crampiness, moodiness, etc.
While it's a pain to wait for these things to happen, your period can't be far off. And with the increase in hormones, your breasts will follow. A woman is not fully developed until her early twenties, so you've got lots of time.
2. Do you want a boyfriend to like you only for your boobs? I'm hoping the answer is 'no.'
If you have a confidence problem as a result of your smaller breasts, this could put people off you - people want to be around people who like themselves (without being egotistical or arrogant). You know you're not unattractive, you know your period and breasts will come, etc etc.
So will a boyfriend. I can virtually guarantee this. In the meantime, let your personality shine through. Don't focus so much on your looks; if a guy is attracted to you because you make him laugh or are witty and intelligent, that's a boy who will like you for the longterm.
Be patient, and the world will unfold for you.
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Sorry Hun, but there's not much you can do to speed up the growing and devolping process. Don't think that the reason that you havent had a boy friend yet is because you have small boobs. Would you want a guy that was with you just becuase you had big boobs and 4 no other reason? I didn't think so. The worst part of answering your questiong it tellin you that the only thing you can do is wait. I know that sucks, but in time your body will devolp more. It ususally starts around the time you start your first period, which can be anywhere between 13-16. {depending on your weight...the thinner you are the longer it will take.}
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hi, well i dunno a doctor might help you with this but i kno that some girls are not developed as quickly as some other... you kno...it depends..there are some girls that get their periods on their 20's that i kno of...and there are some that dont get it at all...hope u are not one of them and you get them soon...i'm not tryin to make you feel bad but the girls that dont ever get their periods dont have kids...i think you should go and ask your doctor...thats my opinion xoxo effy
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