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Question Posted Friday December 17 2004, 7:17 pm

ummm ya hi i have this friend which i have gone out with him 5 TIMES i kno i kno its werid but he is sooo iresitable(cant spell.) but anyways and i still like him but i mean he flirts sooo BAD with me and i dont kno if he is just doing it cause he knows he can or if he is serious....for sum reason i dont think he is serious but i can never get serious with him i dont know buit i REALLY LIKE HIM ....he was my first kiss and ya its hard to get over him :( .....WHAT SHOULD I DO>>>?

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Ask_Anything answered Friday December 17 2004, 8:35 pm:
well you obviously are attached to this guy. there must be something you keep coming back for. do you know what it is? hopefully it's some quality that is good for a relationship. because of the going out, breaking ups happening so frequently between you two, take a break. there must have been something going wrong between you two that kept making you two break up. if you really still like him, wait it out- make sure you feel the same for a while. some mixed emotions may seem strong, but are only for a short period of time. first kisses are a major mark on a girls life, and it is going to be hard to get over him. but .. think before you make the decision: do you REALLY want to keep going back to him? or should you move on? you should make the decision based on what will make YOU feel better. if he cant be serious with you, that definitly can be a contributing factor to the breaking up. i know i like a guy who can be serious with me about things.. a guy who is all play and no consideration for a real relationship isnt looking to stay with you a long time. think about what he can do for you- and if he is even ready for a real girlfriend. give it some time. it's hard to move on, but maybe moving on is the right choice to a better relationship. stay friends - whether you decide to give him another try or not. plus dont get caught up in the flirtation, anyone can flirt and have meaning to it. i cant make the decision for you- but you can. Look at it all from different perspectives, you'll make the best choice you can! =] -ask_anything

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