Question Posted Thursday December 16 2004, 6:00 pm
hey, im having some problems with friends.. i already lost a group of friends and then i finally made more. i met 2 great people and we all used to hang out then they started leaving me out more and more.. and though they say were still best friends i still dont feel like we are. help please.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? Ask_Anything answered Friday December 17 2004, 8:44 pm: i used to have friend problems myself, and what i've learned is that no matter what people say, not all can be trusted. no one can promise to keep a great friendship with you forever. i only have one, steady friendship with someone that i know will be constant all through my life. losing a group of friends means you need to figure out why you lost them. im sure it wasnt your fault, but you should figure out what is it that made them fade away from you. it's good you've met more people, because the more variety of friends you have, the better. it's possible these two people left you out because you might have been getting too attached. i know a major friendship problem is that one person gets too attached to others, and causes some people to want separation. you should broaden your friendships, that way you dont always have to rely on two or three people to hang out with. making friends can be hard, but if people became your friends before, there must be something about you that is friendhship material! i hope things get better soon for you =] -ask_anything [ Ask_Anything's advice column | Ask Ask_Anything A Question ]
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