Question Posted Tuesday December 14 2004, 11:29 pm
one day i didnt have any lunch money and i knew this one girl did cause she always does but when i asked her if i could borrow a dollar ( i even offered to pay her back double the next day) she said no...so i stole it,shame on me, i no,i paid her back the next day though,and (i dont no when this part actually happened...)but now my other "friend" had some money stolen from her purse and since they knew about what i did they are blaming it on me,i know i didnt do it, and i told them that i dint but they say they dont believe me and they cant trust me anymore,it really hurts, the girl i originally took a dollar from i didnt like anyways but the one that has money missing was my friend so its not like i wouldnt tell her about it even if i did(which once again i didnt)and they dont believe me,now were not even talking since they cant trust me,which means i obviously cant trust them anymore then...kinda getting long,so ill sum it up,Please Help
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? XoLiLmsYaNkeeOx answered Thursday December 16 2004, 1:17 pm: well.. i can see why your friend wouldnt trust you. stealing is stealing, no buts about it. have you ever heard the story of the little boy who cried wolf? well, in case you havnt, let me fill you in. there was a boy and every day he cried that he saw a wolf, and every day they village people came to his rescue, and he would laugh and laugh because there really was no wolf. well one day, the little boy saw a wolf. he cried to the villagers, but they didnt listen to him because they thought he was lying. so the boy was never seen again. see how it kind of relates to you? you stole once, people are gonna think you did it again, even if you DID pay your friend back. you made a mistake and now i guess you have to pay for it [ XoLiLmsYaNkeeOx's advice column | Ask XoLiLmsYaNkeeOx A Question ]
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